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Post by cindylouwho on Sept 9, 2004 4:07:53 GMT -5
lol! I didn't literally mean Dallas! Any hometown will do - yours included. I just meant nice, down to earth kinda gals ~
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Post by lotus on Sept 15, 2004 2:10:36 GMT -5
I hope that the woman Owen marries will not marry him for money or looks but his personality. Who would want to be a Shallow Hal?
He is still young and he has still got time to marry. Who said it is harder after 35 to get married? Ha! People still marry a lot later that that.
What is needed in a marriage is friendship, trust, something in common, you should care for that person through thick and thin. Communication is a must also. I don't think Owen is selfish but I think that he would have the above traits. I hope that he finds a lovely wife who loves him dearly and looks after him and Owen can do the same for her.
I have already bombed out of 2 marriages! I have an idea of what is needed but I always seem to find the wrong man. Mine couldn't care less about me.
Let's hope that he doesn't get really hurt from a relationship that didn't work. Love can really hurt sometimes (mine does and it's over).
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Post by peakindarien on Sept 15, 2004 2:23:44 GMT -5
Thank God it's not Owen. I read he said he makes a better friend than a boyfriend. LOL, maybe he was only doing the guy thing of saying that so women will think he has a great personality. ;D Not that Owen needs to do that, of course. I'd like to marry Owen too, but only if I had Ben Stiller or Vince Vaugh in with the deal. Now that would be fun!!!! ;D Hear, hear! ;D
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Post by needingthebigO on Oct 4, 2004 1:33:39 GMT -5
I think she meant only 3% to 5% of men over 35 get married for the first time. Many who get divorced get remarried after that age, but, I guess, if a guy stays single up to that age, he is likely to remain that way. Single guys of that age, complain that it is hard to find a girl their age who doesnt have a kid. Maybe this is why they go out with young girls and don't tend to marry. Perhaps, Owen feels he would make a better friend than a boyfriend, because, he doesn't trust himself to be faithful. He does seem like he likes flirting with the ladies.
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Post by lotus on Oct 17, 2004 0:18:12 GMT -5
What guy doesn't flirt with a female? As for being faithful, well that is entirely different (in my opinion). I think that Owen could and would remain faithful to his wife, when he marries, but I don't think it would stop him flirting with ladies. Heck, I tend to flirt a bit (my daughter told me that) but I just thought that it was my sense of humour. Owen can also go for any age female that he wants to (over 16). As long as they love each other that is the main thing. ;D Who cares about age? I don't!
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Post by cindylouwho on Oct 17, 2004 7:41:20 GMT -5
hahaha! thats true Lotus, I do that too! I grew up in a house full of boys, so I'm just comfortable with guys and I tend to just goof around with them alot like I always have with my brothers, when one of my bosses <a man.. told me how big of a flirt I was.. When I explained I was just goofin' with them, he told me - "trust me, from a mans view.. you're flirting"! lol!!
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Post by lotus on Oct 17, 2004 8:41:50 GMT -5
Let me see Cindy, I went to a girl's grammar school and when we saw a guy walk through the school, we all stood up and pointed saying "Look! There is a boy (male) walking through here....." Talk about starved of male company. I have no idea of how to act in front of men. With my sense of humour and me mucking about a lot, I must seem like a flirt. I had a creepy boss that used to chase me about all the time............ick! It is a pity that he wasn't young and good looking...... It looks like I will remain a flirt forever because of my wicked sense of humour but at least I will have fun........lol............ My 18 y.o. daughter wonders why I have Owen on my desktop (computer not table - I wish!) She thinks that he isn't handsome etc. but then at her young age, they think that 30 is old and by the time you get to my age you are probably supposed to have forgotten how to make love. After my 2nd marriage all my children said "You didn't sleep with him! Did you mum???" They were horrified when I said "Yes, of course I did!" Oh well, at least I have been told that Texasgal is older than me. Who cares about age anyway? I still feel 17! No I am not old....................;D ;D ;D
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Post by cindylouwho on Oct 17, 2004 10:35:36 GMT -5
lol! forgotten how to make love! my lady, you're a seasoned pro! ;D ahh the very young.... I'm 39, and I told a friend years and years ago that I didn't think things were ever going to really come together for me until I was in my 40's - She's A Sag, as am I, she told me that I might be quite right.. she went on with how 40 is a 'Master' number, like a true philosophical Sagittarius.. and told me how nothing came together for her until 40.. she went thru 2 bad marriages, lived out of her car with 3 little children.. joined the service and bounced everywhere.. she met her husband now of 12 years when she was 41... they have a great life, the kids grew up nicely, big house, finanically set, lotsa love, and at 54 received her Bachlors Degree... so there! the proof is in the pudding so to say. age is just a number, and life is not linear~
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Post by lotus on Oct 17, 2004 21:07:24 GMT -5
lmao! I think that I have told you I am older than Owen and younger than Jackie Chan. It may sound awful to some but the best times are now. ;D Funny that you say 'seasoned pro' because a Pro over her in Australia is a prostitute............ha ha...........don't worry because I don't take any offense. I know what it means in America. Professional! Thank you my lady! This ol'piano has been played on before and sounds better than a new piano (I stole that line from an old movie). I don't think that age matters at all. Life begins at 40..................... (Your friend sounds like her life is fabulous now )
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