Sugar Kane
Anthony's Spanish Tutor
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Post by Sugar Kane on Nov 12, 2004 6:06:44 GMT -5
It was Luke that said what offended me, although I'm sure it wasn't malicious. He was kind of laughing at the time. Anyhow, I'm sure I can forgive him. I'm so sorry to hear about your problems Lotus, a lot of us ladies on the board seem to share the problem of no-good men. Funny how we are all drawn to the Wilsons...
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Post by lotus on Nov 12, 2004 8:41:40 GMT -5
NanaBee, Thanks for saying that I am important in your life. I rush to this board always to see what you ladies have written. It cheers me up completely. I think that all the people on this board are great, and I love the caring plus everyone's sense of humour. I love the Wilsonettes also! See you on Tuesday which will be Wednesday here. Have a good time.
Sugar Kane, I read this thread again and I noticed this time that it was Luke who you were talking about. Oops! The same that I said before, goes for Luke also. I am sure that he hasn't a malicious bone in his body. He was taken out of context.
I have noticed that a lot of us ladies have been drawn to the Wilson board, and we seem to have problems with men. Men that have treated us badly and even hit us. It is so good to see that many ladies come here and talk on the board. We don't fight but are able to communicate with each other in a caring manner. This board is great and I am only relatively new to this board. I love it here. People that I find very supportive are BP, Venus, Natalie, Peak, Remi, Fergie, Sugar Kane (of course) and Cindy. (Sorry if I have forgotten someone's name) I can't remember many names but I have noticed that everyone here are friends.
Owen and Luke are magnets to women. I think that we look forward to their good sense of humour, the fact that they care and many more good qualities. They are some of my reasons anyway.
You all are really great here, and helpful. Where would I be without you??
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Post by Remi on Nov 12, 2004 9:49:10 GMT -5
Lotus ~ (Thank you for mentioning me! ) I hate to think that anyone has hurt you (and others) so severely in the past! No MAN has a right to hurt his wife/girlfriend/woman, no matter what the situation! I've never been in a relationship that's gone as far as physical abuse... but there was one that could have been, and another with "mental abuse" tendencies. Fortunately, I was able to leave 'em in the dust before it went too far. This story will give you an idea of the kind of person I am... I was at a party at a friend's house in college. There was the usual group of people playing "quarters" at the dining room table. A young man (who I'd never met before) and I were watching them play (I had learned my lesson early about quarters - don't play!). He was kinda cute, and really drunk. We were sitting side by side, making funny remarks about the game and eachother. I said something funny. He laughed and hit me with his fist on my knee HARD. I asked him nicely not to do that again. He was drunk and maybe didn't realize how hard he hit me. A few minutes later, the same thing happened, DOINK, right on my knee again. I asked him not-so-sweetly this time to quit and I wasn't gonna ask him again. He laughed it off. I swear, not 5 minutes later, he DID IT AGAIN! I went with my first reaction, balled-up my fist and POPPED him on the jaw with every bit of the 107lbs. in me. He did the cartoon wobbling of the head (I think he actually could hear birds) and passed out! The people at the table burst into laughter, and his friend carried him out the door and didn't return. The next day, he came back with his friend to pick up some stuff they left the night before. He apologized profusely to me. He said he couldn't remember what he did to make me hit him, but he probably deserved it. What-ever! I told him he did deserve it, and NEVER to lay a hand on another woman again! I never saw again him after that. Hopefully he learned his lesson. Boy, if you're out there, don't make me POP you again! Sorry, I've rambled. I've had entirely too much coffee this morning. I guess the point to my story is... sometimes "nice" doesn't work. It takes a "significant emotional event" for someone to change an abusive tendency. I do hope that was "significant" enough for him!
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Post by Natalie on Nov 12, 2004 10:09:23 GMT -5
Lotus, thanks for mentioning me too. I'm glad that the Wilsons have brought such a lovely group of ladies together. Remi, I'm glad you defended yourself.
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Sugar Kane
Anthony's Spanish Tutor
Owengasms!
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Post by Sugar Kane on Nov 12, 2004 11:33:19 GMT -5
Aaw! Not to get too sentimental, but I love you guys. I know I haven't been around for quite a while, but you guys make it so easy just to drop back right in and open up about my problems. You all rule, and I'm so happy to be part of a board with such great women I can talk to and laugh with. I have Owen to thank for bringing us together. In fact, I would like to thank the hell out of him!
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Post by lotus on Nov 13, 2004 6:52:09 GMT -5
Sugar Kane, I think that we would all love the thank Owen for bringing us together. We are all such good friends, even though this is over the Internet. I feel like I have known you all for ages and you are all such lovely ladies, with such a great sense of humour.
I think that you were already in place on this board but you just make things really easy to join in because you are so friendly. ;D
I would thank Owen with a great big hug and kiss. We all would. How about inviting him to the beach in Australia? Remember that you are invited also........ Remember those bathers that kept slipping down? We could all help him hold them up..........ahem.......... Our waves are nice and strong here.................... Remi, Way to go!!! If a man did that to me now, I think that I would be ready to deck him! I don't appreciate things like that at all. I am more of a pacifist (or I was before my husband and son disappointed me) My brother, Jeffrey, pushed me backwards and he was really angry and threatening me. He was really strong and I had not way of protecting myself. I was scared of him and what he could do to me. I remember when I was 13 and he punched my head through a glass door. I ran away from home at that stage. When he pushed me last time, in temper, and threatened me, I said that if he ever laid his hands on me again I would call the police. He has never laid his hands on me again! Mind you, I was shaking like a leaf!
All I can say is "Good on you for decking such a jerk!"
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Post by venusinscorpio on Nov 17, 2004 13:20:05 GMT -5
I think Owen has a very sensitive side and reveals his insecurities in his characters. Even Roy O' Bannon says all he has is his ability to talk!
Owen is a Scorpio, remember. That's a water sign, emotional and passionate and can turn their anger inwards. I think Owen is generally cheerful, shy or not. Probably very affable, loving to people, when he's loved.
Luke seems more down to earth. I don't think there's anything wrong with defending yourself. Lately I've begun to think some people need a punch in the face to put them in their place!
But Lotus, if anyone ever struck me (and no-one has) that's it -outta there. I've had two screaming rows with a neighbour and my brother this year and I had to scream. It was the only way to make them see I wasn't taking their sh*t.
Owen was shy on Jonanthan Ross, I think he's afraid Ben will trip him up on those shows like he did on Katie Couric I think.
BTW, there was a suicide in my family (a nephew) at the beginning of the year, but I wouldn't take offense at that remark luke made-he was only joking I'm sure.
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Post by lotus on Nov 18, 2004 1:24:41 GMT -5
Venus, I agree with you about Owen's characteristics. He is shy (Jackie Chan mentioned that). Sensitive, thoughtful, most likely emotional and as you said, passionate.
Not enough can be said about him and all his qualities. He is such a beautiful person with great characteristics.
I just love the way you explained him to us.
Anyone: Never let a man hit you. Walk out from a situation like that. You should be treated properly and never abused verbally, mentally and certainly never have a fist raised to you.
I learnt last month that my mother's brother hadn't died of natural causes but died because he comitted suicide.
Life is far too short to fight with each other. You never know what will happen the next day.
Be strong and don't be abused.
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Post by venusinscorpio on Nov 18, 2004 12:37:16 GMT -5
Thanks Lotus, Of course I don't know Owen, but I'm guessing being a Scorpio too and knowing how shy I used to be. (And I'm passionate LOL). I agree there is great rapport on this board, and lovely, lovely people. Owen could be proud he attracts such true gems. I want to specially mention Bunny, Peak, HT, O-Thing, Needing the BigO, Remi, Natalie, Texasgal and your good self, Lotus.
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Post by Nana on Nov 18, 2004 13:37:33 GMT -5
Life is far too short to fight with each other. You never know what will happen the next day.
Lotus my dear, that is sooo what the world needs right now. Less darkness, more LIGHT, less war, more PEACE, less fight, more (much more) LOVE.I'm glad really we find this here.
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Post by lotus on Nov 18, 2004 19:07:26 GMT -5
We all come to this board because it is a good influence on us.
How true! It is so good to have everyone on this board. I think that we have become close.
Venus, Jackie Chan says Owen is shy. He said that he talks a lot on the set but off the set, he is quite and always reads a book. Are Scopios shy? That is a great trait.
People say that I was shy when I was younger. I call it being chicken of people but I find it easier these days not to be so chicken of things. I talk a lot sometimes but I am usually as quiet as ever at home.
I can't resist trying to make someone laugh. My friend here, at home, never used to smile or joke. Now, she has my sense of humour and jokes back to me. She teases me with her joking! Wow! Some change in her. Now she smiles and laughs whenever I make a joke. That is what I call good.
Aquarians are supposed to be humanitarian. I hope that I am. ;D
I just love everyone on this board because you are all so caring and beautiful. I love this board.
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Post by fergie on Nov 18, 2004 19:16:30 GMT -5
Aquarians are supposed to be humanitarian. I hope that I am. ;D
We are indeed Lotus, Joan of Arc's of the zodiac.
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Post by lotus on Nov 18, 2004 19:24:55 GMT -5
Aw! You are so sweet. *hugs and kisses*
Oops! Too sentimental for some...............
Does this mean that you are an Aquarian like me?
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Post by fergie on Nov 18, 2004 19:27:34 GMT -5
Yes
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Post by lotus on Nov 18, 2004 19:36:24 GMT -5
No wonder we get along so well! We also yak a bit on the boards. Why do I feel like I have been chasing you on the boards? It hasn't been intentional.................it has been amusing though. ;D Thanks for cheering me up.................
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